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Tiger Woods Can’t Win This Game
Written By : Melissa Clouthier

Tiger Woods is in the deep rough today. He’s avoiding talking to the police. They’re seeking search warrants for his medical records. This is a disaster of monumental proportions for the golf star. No matter what he loses.

He was either under the influence of some controlled and crashed his vehicle. Or, he was beat by his jealous wife and trying to escape. If it’s the former, his squeaky image is tarnished (though less so if it’s by pain medication). If it’s the latter, he’ll have the ignominious reputation for being an abused husband.

Women initiate physical contact in relationships but rarely do the damage a man does..unless the woman is wielding a golf club, say. Glenn Reynolds writes late yesterday about the implications of the abuse:

Rosin also writes: “It is impossible to imagine Tiger occupying the same cultural brain space as Rihanna, with Nordegren playing Chris Brown. If Tiger had been chasing down his wife with a golf club and she had shown up with bruises, even if she had cheated with, say, K-fed, we would be a lot less ambivalent and complacent.” That’s probably correct, for certain values of the word “we,” but why is that, exactly? Cheating men deserve to be beaten, even with weapons, while cheating women do not?

Or could it be, you know, sexism? But that’s not possible, because Hanna Rosin can’t be sexist, and neither can those who agree with her. If you’re Hanna Rosin, “sexist” is a name you call other people. You know, bad people who believe in stereotypes and stuff.

Here’s the thing: While it’s just as bad for the woman to beat the man as vice versa, the consequences for this story coming out will not benefit the victim. In fact, the victim will be re-victimized. Tiger Woods will be the butt of jokes; he is already. Again, this is wrong. And maybe his case will help change the culture around husband abuse, but I doubt it. The more likely outcome will be further humiliation.

In this case, Tiger Wood’s fame works against him. As others have pointed out, a regular guy would have answered the police questions. The wife would be arrested. It would be her first offense. Very likely the charges would be dropped. And this would go away.

But Tiger Woods didn’t talk to the police after promising he would and now, irritated at his elite star status, they’re going after him….ostensibly to come to justice, but just as likely because they don’t like being put off by the star.

Howard Kurtz blames the media for the circus and asks this:

Is all this, well, news? Edwards’s romance with Rielle Hunter, which he initially denied, took place during a presidential campaign. Is there a compelling public interest in the private life of the world’s top-ranked golfer?

The public is interested because Tiger Woods has everything: fame and fortune. Does he have the same sort of messy life as average Americans? Inquiring minds want to know.

Can Woods hit a miracle shot and save his reputation? That remains to be seen, but I’m doubtful.

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  • CoolCzech

    This, too, shall pass.

  • tblrk2006

    Bout time for the police to back the f*ck off tiger….and about time for the media to stop acting like he is breaking a law or rule. He does NOT have to talk to any police about the matter and they have no right to go after his med records. F*ck them, lawyer up, and sue their arses off.

  • Jack Schite

    Tiger may have fame and fortune but that shouldn’t make him 24-hour news.

  • D-Vega

    What was Tiger’s biggest mistake?

    He didn’t use a driver.

    Seriously, his handlers screwed this up majorly. No one would have cared if he would have responded quickly and written the narrative, the #1 rule in crisis management.

  • CoolCzech

    I’m sorry, but the ONLY story worthy of 24/7 these days is Climategate – the Fraud of the Millenium, in my opinion.

    Possible exception: That it took Obama almost a year to decide on a strategy for Afghanistan, that in the end sounds remarkably similar to what George Bush did in Iraq. Let’s just hope he’s got the nads to hang as tough on it as the last American president did.

  • whats_up

    Tiger isnt required by law to answer police questions. He has done nothing wrong, it will be interesting to see what comes of this.

  • han_solo

    Tiger is right…

    NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER talk to the police, even if perfectly innocent.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wXkI4t7nuc&feature=player_embedded

  • http://conservativebootcamp.com martinhale

    It’s reassuring to know that I’m not the only one who seriously doesn’t care about Mr. Woods personal life. My advice to the MSM is to let the matter rest, but I know they won’t and it’ll end up being just one more reason people avoid buying their papers, or watching their TV programmes.

  • http://www.superdickery.com mightysamurai

    Tiger may have fame and fortune but that shouldn’t make him 24-hour news.

    It does when people like you insist on paying attention to it so you can complain about it being 24-hour news.

  • Mike_M

    I ususally fall on the side of the police, but police in Florida celebrity enclaves have a reputation for fishing expeditions (Rush’s medical records?).

    Clearly *something* happened to trigger this event, but with no witnesses, no complaints from Tiger or his wife, and no real evidence of domestic violence, this boils down to a traffic citation. Traffic citations do not mandate search warrants, sit-down interviews, and paging through medical records.

    I wonder how long before we’ll get Obama saying “the police acted stupidly”, liberal groups calling the police and the people who dialed 911 racist, and Tiger, Obama, and the police cheif sitting down for a beer at the White House?

  • BIG

    It appears that Tigers mistake was in playing the wrong hole.

  • libliever

    Was the accident on a public road?
    If yes then the police are obligated to investigate. Nobody should be above the law.
    Should he come completely clean like Hugh Grant on the Leno show all those years ago?
    Yes, he should for no other reason than to get those media whores off his back. The more he stays silent the more they’ll swarm like wasps because the public will demand answers even though it is none of their business.
    He should not have cancelled his upcoming tourney because that just adds fuel to the fire.
    He neends to act quickly to get the stink off of him and onto the media that is haunting him.

  • D-Vega

    If he would have responded right away and made it into a joke, we wouldn’t have cared. It was Thanksgiving weekend.

    But when you release a statement and say you are “embarassed”, that “no one is perfect”, that you are “human”, and people should respect your family’s “privacy”, that means “I was cheating on my wife and got caught.”

    It sounds like he is listening to lawyers, rather than PR people.

  • http://www.superdickery.com mightysamurai

    Was the accident on a public road?
    If yes then the police are obligated to investigate.

    Only up to the point where they suspect a legal violation. The Florida Highway Patrol has already said alcohol wasn’t involved (which means drugs weren’t involved either, since they only way they could know that is with a tox screen and drugs would have shown up on that) and they don’t believe it was a “domestic issue”. In fact as far as I can tell there doesn’t seem to be anything at all to warrant a police investigation. Just write him a ticket for reckless driving and be done with it.

  • D-Vega

    If Tiger’s wife assaulted him, then the police have to investigate whether or not Tiger wants to press charges.

    The problem, I think, is that Tiger’s people asked the police to come to the house to question them. And then when they were at the gate, the police were told they changed their mind and that no one would talk to the police.

    The police hate that.

  • President_Friedman

    Thus reinforcing my belief that nothing good can come from golf. A good walk spoiled, as Mr. Clemens once said. A good day of fishing wasted, I say. Professional fishermen never get in this kind of trouble! ;-)

  • http://www.superdickery.com mightysamurai

    But when you release a statement and say you are “embarassed”, that “no one is perfect”, that you are “human”, and people should respect your family’s “privacy”, that means “I was cheating on my wife and got caught.”

    Yes, because we all know it’s just impossible for someone to feel honestly humble and contrite when they screw up. Clearly everybody in the world is a raging egomaniac and anyone who openly acknowledges that they made a mistake and asks people to please leave them alone is secretly hiding an extramarital affair.

  • D-Vega

    He didn’t sound humble and contrite, mighty. That’s the problem. He sounded like he was hiding something.

  • http://www.superdickery.com mightysamurai

    He sounded like he was hiding something.

    In that case I suggest you quit your current job and send an application to the FBI. I’m sure they’d be very interested in these spontaneous telepathic abilities you’ve apparently developed as of last Friday.

  • D-Vega

    You can talk in the ideals, sam. But the reality is that the media smells blood for a reason. Its not their job to respect privacy, its their job to follow a story.

    Until Tiger comes clean in some manner, they will not stop.

  • gfchicago

    “In that case I suggest you quit your current job and send an application to the FBI. I’m sure they’d be very interested in these spontaneous telepathic abilities you’ve apparently developed as of last Friday.”

    Posted by mightysamurai
    2009-12-01 13:19:19

    Mighty you owe me a new keyboard for that one ;D

    I honestly don’t really care to hear anymore about this, as far as I’m concerned if there were no drugs or alcohol involved, drop it.

    I just don’t want to see wall to wall coverage like in the Anna Nicole Smith, the diaper wearing astronaut cases.

    If his wife caught him cheating, that’s his problem and I really don’t care to hear about it 24/7.

  • belacuse

    Until Tiger comes clean in some manner, they will not stop.
    Posted by D-Vega
    2009-12-01 13:32:26

    And that’s a shame, but the media is free to keep pushing this non-story as much as their ratings can take. But what I really want to not hear anymore is the incessant calls that Tiger “owes” an explanation of some kind. Garbage. He owes nothing. Hell, I even heard a conservative saying the same thing (forget who, some guy sitting in for Hannity on his radio show last week). Police found no probable cause of a crime, they need to issue whatever traffic citation they feel is warranted, pack up, and go back to their business.

  • D-Vega

    He does owe an explanation, though. It’s for the same reason he makes 100+ million dollars a year. He is a public figure.

  • http://www.superdickery.com mightysamurai

    But the reality is that the media smells blood for a reason.

    Oh please, the media smells blood in everything (except of course Barack Obama’s personal history). Remember the huge hubub they created about a Koran that was allegedly dunked in a toilet by an American prison guard, that later turned out to be a complete hoax?

    Its not their job to respect privacy, its their job to follow a story.

    Which is precisely the problem. The media’s desire to “follow a story” never seems to take the actual consequences into account. (Notice how no member of the media bothered to publicly apologize for the huge riot that resulted from their rabid promotion of the Koran-dunked-in-toilet hoax.)

    The media’s mantra that “the public has a right to know” is complete horseshit. The public doesn’t have a right to know this. The public doesn’t have a need to know this. And Tiger Woods doesn’t “owe” anybody anything. This attitude that he “owes” an explanation to the public is exactly the reason the media has been able to get so out of control and irresponsible over the years. Bottom line: You are not entitled to know the intimate details of his personal life any more than he is entitled to know the intimate details of yours.

  • http://consultantsgeneral.com Jude

    Good article.

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