A devastated father takes to Facebook with a blunt message after his son dies of an overdose

by Rachel Alexander | November 8, 2014 4:07 pm

[1]After his 20-year old son overdosed on drugs, Mike Stollings decided to post a photo of his body at the funeral home on Facebook out of grief and guilt. The tragic photo of  Jeramie Ratliff was soon shared over 7,700 times.  Stollings said he hopes it may help others. Jeramie leaves behind an infant son of his own. [2]

Rare posted the father’s sad words from Facebook:

lets take another look at how fun drugs are…………… this is my son about an hour after the funeral home got him late monday afternoon. when he died he had been bleeding out of his ears and had blood in his hair and foam in his mouth. they were kind enough to clean him before we got there. his body was ice cold from being kept in a refrigerator. my cold dead son. father of a 10 month boy. grandson to 3 living grand parents. step-brother to 2. half brother to 3 son to 2 living parents and a step parent that helped raise him since he was a young child. all completely devastated. well little asher is too young to know what is going on but will live his life wondering what it would be like to know his dad. as many of you know jeramie was pretty open about his relationship with LSD. he was a little more quiet about his love for Dextromethorphan. despite the begging and pleading from me and many others in his family he craved the trip and was obsessed about it…………look i know that not everybody that takes drugs is going to die from it. but many do. jeramie thought he had it under control. he thought he was smarter than the drug and had more control than the drug. now he is in a refrigerator in a funeral home in englewood. now people are in transit from all across this country to say their final goodbye’s. now my family has to spend over $5000 in funeral expenses. now i will never be able to hike with him or ride dirt bikes with him. he will never be able to take his son camping………….those of you that use just for a little fun here and there. you don’t have to use but you like to party a little. think for a second about how there are those around you with larger mental issues. like jeramie, he was carrying some mental baggage that even i can’t comprehend. by partying with these people you encourage them and enable them to do it to use drugs as an escape. that is the every last thing people like this need. these people need actual help. these people need encouragement to heal in healthy ways. they need to feel genuine love and uplifting encouragement not encouragement to get high again. think about the influence you have on these people. think about the path of destruction being left behind…….people, learn from this. help make something positive from this tragedy. walk away from this lifestyle. find someone that loves you and ask them for help. don’t let this become you. don’t do this to your family. use our pain and anguish. learn from it. turn to someone you love. get help. if you do not have some you think you can turn to message me. i’ll do all in my power to help you. it’s not too late to save yourself and your family from repeating this horror. believe me when i say you do not want to experience this and you do not want your loved ones to have to experience this anguish.

This father is to be commended for using the sad experience to educate others and perhaps save some lives. Despite the horrendous grief he must be going through, he is still thinking of others.  Stollings humbly blames himself, but we don’t know the facts. Some of the best parents have children who take the wrong path in life despite their best efforts. Most likely the young man was influenced by the bad parts of our culture – Hollywood glamorizing drugs, friends whose parents ignored their drug use, and the “do anything if it feels right” attitude the left promotes. It is too late for this young man, but not for those headed down this path. Hopefully this photo will continue to be shared everywhere.

Update #1: Since a lot of people have been asking, the original Facebook that inspired this story can be found here[3].